How I got over Heartbreak 💔

Experiencing heartbreak in the form of an unsuccessful relationship has the power to break the best of us.

Let’s throw it back to five years ago which was the fifth year of my longest relationship. This was the man who I assumed I’d spend the rest of my life with. The one I couldn’t live without. The one who gave me butterflies any time I even thought of him. I never expected to one day find out that he was living a double life that I happened to be on the outside of.

Crushed wasn’t the word. I felt as if it was my fault because I should have known better and that I deserved to feel the way that I felt because I was irresponsible with my heart. Not once did I stop and think that I should hold him responsible for his role in the situation and neither did the other woman 🤦🏾‍♀️. Needless to say, I dealt with a lot of unnecessary and misdirected pettiness after this revelation.

It took me quite some time to decide where to go from there. I wanted to give up on love all together and for a while, two years to be exact, that is exactly what I did. This is where Metaphysics took over. I began to meditate each and every day since I was no longer wasting all of my free time in a meaningless relationship.During many meditation sessions, I was shown that I shoulddevote my time and energy to being the best me that I could possibly be specifically at work and within my role in my nephews’ lives.

During the next two years, I received more awards and recognitions from than I had received at any other time in my life. I was even recognized in a local newspaper for my creation of a training program. I spent so much time with my nephews that people often thought that they were my children. We traveled to so many places together and I was able to show them so many things that I had never experienced as a child. Just being able to show them how loved they are despite losing their dad to gun violence before they were even old enough to understand bought me an unmeasurable amount of happiness.

I was slowly but surely getting closer to becoming who I knew I always could be but there was still a lingering feeling that there was still something missing in my life.

Three years ago, I was single and happy! I was literally thriving. I traveled whenever I wanted and because I had been performing so well at work, I landed myself a position that afforded me the opportunity to take a lot more time off and for once I had the money to actually enjoy time off! I had spent every possible moment of the prior two years loving myself like no man (outside of my father and brother) ever had and I was feeling great!

One day, I decided that I was ready to have a family of my own. Through my knowledge of Metaphysics, I learned and understood that I only needed to consult with my higher self to make this dream a reality. From that day forward, I began to incorporate more of a family theme into my meditation sessions. A short while later I met my fiancé after completing the steps outlined in my “How to Manifest the Love of Your Life” course (check it out under the Courses tab) when I least expected it. Can you guess what I was doing? That’s right! I was busy practicing self-love!

After meeting someone through a mutual friend and agreeing to go on a date with him that very night, I decided to treat myself to ice cream first. I was not overly excited about this date because I had a gut feeling that I would not like this guy so ice cream was both an act of self-love as well as a way to talk myself into actually going. I decided on Cold Stone Creamery which is in a large shopping center along with tons of other stores. Going to crowded places like this usually gives me social anxiety (I’m an empath), but for some reason when I arrived, I felt as though I was at home or as if I had been there a million times. Inside there was a young couple and I remember looking at them and smiling knowing that I would someday be loved by someone too. A warm feeling filled my heart and gave me peace. As I stepped up to the counter to place my order a very handsome and athletic man walked in the door and looked directly at me and smiled. I politely smiled back and finished placing my order. I felt so relaxed and secure with him standing in line behind me it made me wonder if I had met him before. Once my cup of ice cream was finished I reached into my purse to pay. He told the cashier that he would be paying for my ice cream and placed his order. I stood waiting to thank him when he asked if I had time to sit and eat. I agreed.

We sat and talked ALL NIGHT LONG! Day had turned into night and I had forgotten all about my date that night. Needless to say that I have been living blissfully alongside him ever since. I later found out that he had no intentions of coming into Cold Stone that day. He was actually across a rather large parking lot inside a GNC when he spotted me as I got out of my car. He said that he just had to meet me.

So hold on ladies and gents!!! Your love is out there and THEY will find YOU. You won’t have to lift a finger or force anything to work.

I would love for you to share your love story with me 💕